Happy Birthday Lillian … Camilla

She began teaching me about acceptance and flexibility before I even met her … She has taught me about courage, expectations, improvising, and embracing uncertaintity … She has taught me by life lessons I choose to teach her …

Because of her and her brother I choose to make my way through cobwebs and clear some crud from my own childhood and youth that no longer serve me … Because of her I am conscious of the decisions and behavior I model … Because of her I thoughtfully choose the words I use with her and in front of her as I know, she and her brother too will one day be adults and I want what they experience in childhood to benefit them …

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to one amazing, beautiful, shining young lady …. Happy 11th Birthday Lillian …. I am grateful and blessed to have you in my life and to be your Mama!! ♥ ♥ ♥

9.14.12

The Big Pool

By: Lillian Darnell

I love pools.

Once I get used to Pools. I like it as long as it has stairs. The pool has water. The pool is square or circle. You can swim and play in the pool. You can splash in the pool. The pool water sparkles in the sun. Everything reflects in the pool water.

May 16 2012

 

Happy Birthday Frank Romano

Happy Birthday to the BEST Step-Dad in the Universe!!! Happy Happy Happy Birthday Frank C. Romano Jr. …. I am grateful every day that you are my Momma’s husband and my step-daddy … Blessed blessed blessed to pieces you are YOU … The World benefits from your kindness! I LOVE YOU!! (This is me and my big hair with Frank … I think in 1991 or somewhere around there.)

8.26.12

Memories: Robert Downs and The Rolling Stones and Rules

Heard some Rolling Stones this morning … always makes me think of my Daddy …. here I am visiting him with my big hair in 1992 down in Nawlins … Without knowing it, Daddy taught me there’s usually a way around, over, under or through rules!! Love you Daddy … thanks for always being there for ME!! Thought this might bring some fond memories of your own back to you …

7.19.12

Memories: Estelle and Arthur Mann and Motel 6 and a DJ

Just heard a song that brought back warm and fuzzy memories of my Mammaw & Arthur Mann … After my step-grandpa, Arthur, retired from construction work over in Nigeria they weren’t ready to settle down and still wanted to travel. So they took on the task of motel management for the Motel 6 chain … they were at a different location about every 6 months. It was such fun to visit them while they were doing this … One of their front desk employees when they were in Helena, Montana was also a DJ … Guess hearing this song that he played on one of his DJ’ing shifts brought these fun memories to the surface!! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ you Mammaw and Arthur!! Miss talking and visiting with y’all and love the memories we created!!

7.17.12

Camilla’s Gratitude List

May 20, 2012, Sunday, I am grateful for: Brad Brighton who gave Team TLC 3 pairs of eclipse viewing glasses. Thomas and Lillian’s excitement while driving to pick up our glasses. My Daddy, Robert Downs … bought 10 of my books today! The experience of watching the eclipse with Thomas and Lillian.

Happiness Journal for Camilla: Week of May 13 2012

May 16, 2012, Wednesday, Happiness is:

Quiet time outside.
Thomas having a good day at school.
Smiles and hugs from friends.
eWomenNetwork Dinner Events.
Yummy food.
Thomas and Lillian’s LOVE of reading.
Everyone’s excitement and enthusiasm about my book!

May 17, 2012, Thursday, Happiness is:

Dorinda’s Chocolates.
Kind gestures.
Ripple effect of positiveness shared with others.
Nevada rain.
Hearing Lillian say “I Love You” at bed time.
My comfortable bed.

May 18, 2012, Friday, Happiness is:

Completion.
Watching Thomas play in the park with his friends.
Creating.
Being able to take Thomas for a haircut.
Buying food.
Treating Team TLC to pizza.
Quiet time outside with Lillian.
Walking outside and seeing Thomas and Lillian siting next to each other with pencil and notebook in had writing poems.
Listening to music.
Dancing.

May 19, 2012, Saturday, Happiness is:

Saturday breakfast of eggs and bacon with Thomas and Lillian.
Lazy days.
Thomas and Lillian playing kindly together.
Virginia Foothills Park with Thomas and Lillian.
Cooking hot dogs on the grill.
Eating hot dogs and french fries with Thomas and Lilian.
Movie night with Thomas and Lillian.
Eating hot buttered popcorn with Thomas.
Good surprises!
Receiving my first bulk order of D iz for Different!